09.23.07
Wedding Guests Pay Up
Weddings are an industry. There are florists, venues, waiters, planners, wineries, makers of cute-little-white-wedding-bell-shaped-soap; all of whom make money off weddings.
Of course there is the romance of the whole situation, but many think, and makers of chair covers are one of them, that if you spend money, you can make the whole event that much more romantic. Sorry, it’s a bit of a killjoy.
Today I was reminded of how it is not only the wedding couple, but all the guests that also contribute financially. According to an ICM survey listed on Which?, Brits spend a total of £6.7 billion on wedding gifts each year. Depending on how close to the couple they are, guests will spend between £23 - £70 (yowzers!) on the couple. Scots are the most generous (next time I’ll invite more of them).
Having said that, I never really think about how much weddings cost to attend. Recently I went to the wedding in Cornwall. It was absolutely lovely. It also cost me £55 for the B&B, £60 in petrol, £30 for the gift, etc…
Maybe the whole reason the industry charges ridiculous prices for weddings is that no one cares. As a guest, I am willing to drive five hours on a Saturday morning to Cornwall make a 1.30 wedding, stay overnight, pay the money as stated earlier and then drive five hours home on Sunday. I want to do it.
If I’m willing to do that as a guest, then it doesn’t take much to imagine that a bride and groom will spend a whole lot more to make their day as romantic as possible.
